How To Deal With Court-Ordered Visitation Not Being Allowed


Divorce can be very hard to deal with, especially when you have kids that are taken away from you. However, it becomes even worse when your former spouse is not letting you see your kids according to the court ordered visitation schedule. Here are some things you can do to help you deal with it.

Don't Be Frustrated Around Your Kids

It is normal to feel frustrated when you cannot see your kids. However, it is important that you do not show this frustration while your kids are around. Following a visitation schedule is something that is mean to be worked out between you and your former spouse, not be arguing about it with your kids around. It can make your kids feel stressed by feeling like they need to side with one parent over the other, which is not good. Work out problems with your former spouse in private rather than around others.

Let Older Kids Be Vocal

An older child is going to be able to handle the situation much better, especially because they have a handle on what the divorce is and know all about visitation schedules. If you are upset about not being able to see your kids, chances are they are upset about it as well. Let your kids know it is okay to void their displeasure over the situation by talking with the responsible parent. Visitation is important for both kids and parents, especially when the non-custodial parent is looking to be in the lives of their kids.

Be Prepared to Negotiate

If a schedule is not working out, sometimes you need to negotiate. Find out why visitation times are being missed and if there is any potential solution to ensure that those times are met. For example, it may be easier to pick your kids up from school on visitation days or switch visitation times to a different day of the week.

Be Prepared To Go To Court

When you have court ordered visitation time, this means that your former spouse must follow the schedule that has been decided on by the court. Know that you may have to go to court over this matter if they are blatantly disregarding the visitation signs. There can be legal consequences for withholding your kids from you, and the judge may even open up negotiations again to find a better solution to all the missed visitation times.

For more information, contact your local divorce attorneys.


30 April 2018

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